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Hi ..This is Mrs. Sen . My husband is an engineer . My pregnancy was confirmed but i had to get aborted for some personal reasons. We did not get married legally. neither we can because of some family problems. We know each other  for 7 years . He always made me feel that i am his wife ..and he loves me lots ..so what if we cannot get legally married. I believed him as i love him more than my own self. I ignored my parents and all near and dear ones as my first priority was he and just he. There are somethings which i cannot get from him ...like to be called as his wife in society ( which every girl wants but i cannot ...which hurts me ....but i still accepted that guy as i love him the most)....in laws love ( which every girl wants but i will not get ...which hurts me..but i still accepted that guy as he promised that he will always be with me ).....I got aborted on november 21st ...its going to be nearly one month ....my husband is getting married to some other girl  because of his parents pressure...when i got aborted my husband was not with me ..till date he did not come and c me ..its already one month .

Abortion is because of family issues but still would i not hv any emotions for the child.? We hv sacrificed the child because of society ..can i be heart less for the child thinking that this has to happen one day ? wont i be mentally effected ?

My question is would any husband who loves his wife would feel bad for the abortion or not?

Would any husband who loves his wife would feel bad for the wife or not?

Can any husband be without seeing his wife for one month of the abortion???????

Can any husband leave his wife alone in such a bad phase  and think of a girl whom he is getting married ?

Can any husband leave his wife alone to cry and think of ways and means to make the new girl happy??

After abortion ...i was bleeding for nearly 10 days....was very sick ...reached death bed ..i was not able to concentrate on my work ...and when even ever i call my husband he can only think of hurting me ..he never understands what i am going through.....i started hurting my self ...i never thought my husband would run away in my bad days and he is interested in the other girl more than me even in my bad days...i started behaving wierd ....i started begging pple on road to help me ......

Just want to know....does my husband love me ????  or the new girl ???

If he loves me can he be without seeing me for one month of the abortion??

Wont i feel like hugging him and crying loud for such a bad phase in my life.....is it wrong if i feel so?

Should my husband understand my situation and help me come out of that hard phase or should he  leave me alone for my fate and think of his marriage ?

i am going mad day by day ..i am becoming low and low....and the other hand my husband instead of understanding my situation and helping me and he is thinking abt his honeymoon and marraige ..and the new girl and ways and means to make her happy...browses internet and he is learning how to make the new girl more and more happy.

pls help me and guide me on this..what should i do ....how should i come out of my mental sickness...

Mrs. Sen